* CUDA: Simplify and improve CUDA graphs through use of indirect copy pointers
Previously there was complexity in the CUDA graphs implementation due
frequently changing parameters to copy kernels associated with K and V
cache pointers. This patch simplifies by using indirection to avoid
such parameters frequently changing, avoiding the need for frequent
graph updates.
Fixes#12152
* Addressed comments
* fix HIP builds
* properly sync to stream
* removed ggml_cuda_cpy_fn_ptrs
* move stream sync before free
* guard to only use indirection with graphs
* style fixes
* check for errors
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Co-authored-by: slaren <slarengh@gmail.com>
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