This replaces per-weight instantiations of all code with only per-MatMul/norm.
Reduces binary size by 133KiB.
WeightsOwner is no longer required for type erasing, hence it is replaced with ModelWeightsPtrs.
Also remove unused EmbedToken, replaced with EmbedMMToken.
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Precompute row pointers.
Remove no longer used MHA support; QStride -> qkv_dim.
Remove RowPtr from MatMul interface, use only MatPtrT.
Require opt-in define for NUQ to speed up builds.
Also fix io.cc on Windows.
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